It is a bit amusing, albeit a bit sad, to think that at times we humans avoid experiencing a particular role, task, or relationship, since we fear we cannot "be with" it's eventual end. The truth is, there is an ending to everything in this human experience we call life. It is all part of the course. It is not wrong, bad or harmful for us when an ending occurs.
The old adage, "All good things come to an end", is true. The same can be said for that which we may call the bad things of life. It is all simply part of the process. As we move along our life paths, we are constantly given opportunities with which we can play and experiment and then eventually move on with our learning, as endings occur.
Every person we meet, every place we visit, every role we play, every job we take on, every movie we watch, every illness we experience, every relationship we have etc. etc., all serve a purpose.
In times of difficulty, we may learn how strong and resilient we really are. Those times may strengthen our relationships and inspire us to reach for something better.
By the same token, those lovely, enriching and exciting occurrences of our lives that we hope may never end, show up our path to help us learn to be present and appreciate them in every moment.
As every other human, I have experienced countless endings and have mostly accepted them without resistance. Although times, relationships and experiences have ended, the lessons are still with me.
I am no longer a child, although I remember how to play.
I am no longer a nurse, although I still nurture and choose to support others.
I no longer have my father, but am grateful for what he taught me.
My son grew up and left the nest to live his own life. My husband and I celebrate his independence and the man he has become.
Relationships with very close friends, ran their course and ended. I am grateful for having had them in my life while they were there.
Vacations in beautiful places, ended. The memories are still present and inspire me to travel to other idyllic locations.
I have completed working with clients that were a joy to coach. I celebrate their moving on and am grateful for being a partner in their self-discovery.
Each stage of my life so far including: babyhood, childhood, teenage years, young adulthood, and middle-age have ended. Each stage in itself had countless beginnings and endings.
What I take with me now until the final ending occurs, is gratitude. Without endings, beginnings lose their importance.